I feel the pain of the ordinary barn swallow.
A nest had been formed in a humanly difficult spot: a corner ledge just above the main entry into the kitchen off the back porch of the house. I knew it would be a problem, for bird and man.
When I mentioned the nest to the home owner he told me to take it down, but if I didn’t want to, he would. I was grateful for his so saying. I could not.
In some deep way I “feel for” those birds. Displacement must be an awful event. Forced removal from one’s place contains devastation. Uprooted, a being is now forced to make another place their home, when anything else is foreign soil.
In similar straits I ponder what it means to have the common, the ordinary, the familiar taken away. The list of questions below have different answers depending on the day, depending on the time of day.
How do you feel when you have been removed from that which is familiar to you?
How do you respond when the commonplace has been replaced and you are without a place?
How do you grieve having been taken from what you knew to the unknown?
How do you withstand the knowledge that what once was, is no more?
How do you go on, putting one foot in front of the other, knowing there is no ‘home’ to return to?
How do we respond when given bad news, the worst news, life-changing news?
How do you plan for the future when your future is “no place?”
How do you contemplate a home when you will never see “home” again?
How do you live with “time” since your times have been separated from your place?
How do you consider ownership, work, or your “standing in the community” when you have nothing to own, you have no work, and you stand outside a community?
I ache for those swallows, even now, as I reminisce about it.
And as I ponder those creatures, perhaps, just perhaps, I have some of my Father in me:
“If I care for the birds, how much more do I care for you?”
Dr. Mark Eckel will be teaching on “suffering” this fall at Crossroads Community Church.
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